That Feeling of Inadequacy...

As women, it seems we compare ourselves to each other often. If we feel we lack what another woman has, we feel inadequate. But what we need to accept is that there is not one person who is completely self-sufficient. In fact, God has placed us within the body of Christ with specific roles, to help accomplish greater goals. "If the whole body were an eye, where would the sense of hearing be?.." (1Cor12:17)
You were created with the ability to do something no one else can do like you, and that works into God's purpose for you. Sweetheart, you are irreplaceable :)
In Christ, Allie J ♥

Blacks On Broadway

Porgy and Bess, Fela!, The Wiz, Fences, The Color Purple, Rent, In the Heights…All have stunned both critics as well as audiences, but that’s not where the similarities end. Each of these productions show a special interest in African American talent and several have been up for Tony Awards. As a race African American writers as well as actors have infiltrated both Broadway as well as Off Broadway. So why is it that blacks are not being attracted to either?

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“Sin is the opposite of God’s nature…imagine how He must feel when we, His beloved children, live a life fully embracing our sinful ways. Imagine how much it must sadden Him when we shrug our shoulders at our own iniquity as if it’s no big deal. “No one was hurt because I did ______.” Are you so sure of that?”

It's been quite some time since I posted anything on here. I've been devoting most of my time on my other blogs, but I will try to bring some life back here.
Also had a problem with someone stealing not only my domain but my name as well...so..don't go to allhisloveliness...It is now www.oncetossedbythewind.com
Hopefully I can get everyone back on the right route to this page because people have been emailing me about the posting the person has been doing *sigh*
I'll fix it yall.

Take A Moment Out and Think of How Far God Has Brought You

You might just wanna turn it down right after you think of it...and right before you play this lol"

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PSA for Muh Ladies :)

Knowing our worth is something most girls must work on. Whether you believe your mind, heart, body, and soul are nothing…or you’re one of those girls that believe NO ONE can ever get those from you because you’re too good for most…We must begin to see ourselves better. 
As someone that struggled with self esteem issues for years, it took a whole lot of God sent experiences and prayer for me to see that I am indeed worth way more than I thought.
For those who feel they’re too good for most…bring it down a notch. Being a Christian is sorta automatically shouting out “I know I’m not perfect so I’m turning to the Lord. I NEED Him to build me. I NEED Him to mold me. I NEED Him so that I can be…etc”. Which basically means that you are not better than every one else. No one is perfect either on the inside or the outside..but we all have beautiful qualities.

But anyway…like I was saying. We need to know the worth of our selves and what it takes to get that.

The price of commitment, sacrifice (willingly compromising), and loyalty is being in a relationship (friendship or gf/bf to marriage)
The price for our bodies (sex) is marriage. 

Hard to ask a guy to pay that price, when you freely give it all away.

Just think about that for a second. 

At some point in our lives we have given away something that we shouldn’t. No matter if it was your body, your extreme loyalty to someone who continued to do wrong by you, or opportunities to better yourself in hopes of pleasing someone who had no intentions of sticking around. 
Why? 
We wanted to eventually feel cared for. To be loved. We went through so much giving of our selves not knowing that of all of those things love was the easiest to receive!

The price of love…?

Turning to the Father <3 

In Christ,
Allie J.

People insist on holding on to situations (and certain people) claiming that it's the reason why their life is the way it is...
The only reason it's a part of your life is because YOU keep thinking about it.
Let. Go.

You simply believing in God isn’t going to get you into the Kingdom. You must live your faith out, be obedient, etc. I can believe in a bus and believe it will take me to a destination. But if I don’t take the necessary steps to actually get to the bus and get on I will be in the same spot as I was when I first said “I believe there is a bus…”.